You need to be like a penis

You need to be both, strong and soft. In this world, you need to be both.

At first you are always soft, you make mistakes, you fall and you hit the bottom. But, then after that you need to raise above, you need to be stronger, you learn from your mistakes and you become stronger. You aren't naive anymore, you don't take bullshit, you are strong. The trick is.. that we usually forget to be soft too. Because i've seen worse, i know worse, i feel the need to always be strong, to be a machine of strongness .. or something. We feel the need to cover up our soft side with a smiley face and a tough handshake. We push ourselves back inside of us.. we push soft feelings aside.. but then comes a point when you need to be soft, when you need to let yourself out of a closet, and be you. That's when the problems begin. We often forget how to be soft in this cruel world. We forget how to show compassion. We forget how to be human. I forgot how to be a girl.

Because in many situations we build a wall around oversells, to protect us. We are afraid to show our feelings because we would look weak, vulnerable, uncapable... But only when we embrace our weaknesses, when we let ourselves feel, only in that way we can grow.

My point is.. no matter what happens next, you should never stop being yourself. Never. embrace your soft and hard side, embrace all of you. You should always respect yourself and be there for yourself. Because you are the only person you're guaranteed to spend the rest of your life with.

So, to conclude this... In this life you need to be like a penis, you need to be soft sometimes and hard to function well

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